Showing posts with label Gary's Way. Show all posts
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Friday, August 8, 2014

Tailless Cats and Squirrels

Cats and Squirrels – Lessons Learned the Hard Way


This little story is about a cat we call Tinker and how she came to share Karen's and my life as the result of a remarkable bond.

I've often said that God gave us children to teach us all the things that we, as humans, so desperately need to know, but so adamantly resist learning. Today, it seems He also provided us with animals for, among other things, the same purpose. That little Truth came to us in the form of a furry little Tinker.

Tinker is a black and white, mostly white, tailless cat. She is really a Cymric (Manx Longhair). We've had her now, actually she's had us, for ten years. In the meantime she's grown fat and lazy, but she wasn't always that way. She is extremely smart and very intelligent. Once she realized we didn't want her crawling around on top of things and wanted her to stay in our yard, she dutifully complied. Amazing!

Before Tinker we had Chevelle. She was a little wiry long-haired little cat we'd had for sixteen years that traveled everywhere with us. She had survived mean cats, dogs, coyotes, big cities, the desert and chain-link fences. She was as comfortable indoors as well as outdoors. One evening she crawled into her special bed and curled up like normal and that's how we founder the next morning. We wrapped her in her blanket and I buried her in a special place in the woods. One sunny afternoon, about six weeks later, Karen and I were outside working in our yard when, from that same wooded place came this cute, friendly black and white, tailless cat. She, with very little coaxing took right up with Karen and even let me pet her. As long as I had known Karen she had wanted a Manx cat. She looked and felt like she was in good health, she had a scar on her tummy where she'd been “fixed” and we wondered if she was a lost or belonged to someone nearby. We were sure such a nice cat had to belong to someone in the park or nearby. We decided to check with the neighbors, local bulletin boards, Humane Society (County Pound), and veterinarians. Nothing. So, after several weeks, we started feeding her and inviting her to come into our house.

We learned later from a neighbor that she had been in the neighborhood for a month and a half to a couple of months. Many had tried to take up with her, offering her food and water, but they noticed that she spent most of her time, when not hunting, at or near our place – they all agreed, she had chosen us – actually she had chosen Karen. She had finally gotten something much more than a Manx cat.

As sometimes common with tailless cats she had a loose bowel problem. Partly because of her diet from living off the land. The Vet said with proper diet, the problem might clear up. Well, it didn't, right away anyway. So, she got fed her fancy diet outside and given a special bed for the night. She was always there waiting for us in the morning ready to come in. Some months later we noticed that with the new diet she was off her foraging diet and the loose bowel problem was gone. Since winter was coming she began to eat and stay in the house; going and coming, in and out, as she felt like.

Over the past two or three years we had occasionally noticed a pair of tree squirrels making themselves rather obnoxious, usually barking at stray dogs, or whatever else wandering through that annoyed their possessive nature. They usually did their griping from high in the trees, rarely ever coming down very close to the ground. They were fearless little critters, but their feet just wouldn't stand. To hear them talk, they laid claim to the whole neighborhood. They merely tolerated us humans, but that particular tailless cat was something else. No matter what, they wanted that cat gone.

What cat, everyone wanted to know? That tailless cat was the most lovable, friendly and peaceful cat in the neighborhood. It never got into fights with any of the other cats. In fact, you hardly knew it was around. Not only that, but none of the cats really posed any threat to the squirrels, since they mainly staid high up in the trees way out of the cat's reach. When it came to that tailless cat, that didn't seem to deter the squirrels. They came right over where it was and raised such hell in the community everyone was looking to see what was the problem causing all the trouble. Even the dogs got concerned. There was such a constant dither that the residents finally complained to the Park owner. He said the problem was all the noise from the screaming squirrels and they are protected – nothing he could do. He wondered what had changed in the neighborhood to cause such a dither. All the cats and the occasional dog allowed to run in the Park never caused this much acrimony. Even so, he told all the residents, “Keep your dogs on a leash.” Of course there was a logical reason for the squirrels paranoia, that black and white cat looked an awful lot like their known enemy the bobcat known to frequent the local area.

Even so, the squirrels continued their raucous screaming and hollering to the top of their lungs, all the time pointing at that terrible cat laying peacefully in the sun bothering no one, but them. The cat wasn't paying any attention to the squirrels, at least that's what it looked like. She was usually facing away with her eyes closed, sleeping peacefully enjoying the fresh air and warm sun. In the meantime, the squirrels, one in particular, were getting bolder and bolder – coming down closer and closer to the cat.

I remember making the comment one morning as we watched one particular squirrel (the male) coming down the tree closer to the cat than ever before, “as fast as those squirrels are, not much chance of that cat catching one of them.” But life has it's ways and sometimes it doesn't go to the bold, the brave and the arrogant stupid.

One morning we heard the same raucous, derisive scolding taunts begin, the female egging on the male, getting louder and more agitated as one squirrel got closer than anytime before. All of a sudden, faster than a blink of an eye, Tinker was on the move – from a sleeping mound of fur to a streak of lightening! In that instant, the arrogant, fearless squirrel's taunting chatter and derisive screams became a torrent of fear. At the last moment when the squirrel knew it was caught, it's screams of fear turned to one last courageous growl that choked in it's throat, but to no avail, it was all over in that instant. One chomp!

Down the tree came Tinker with the squirrel dangling from her mouth, right over to Karen who had rushed outside in hopes of saving the squirrel's life, proudly dropping it at her feet with a couple of slaps with her paw to see if it moved. As Karen picked it up to see if it was hurt, Tinker, with loud purrs of satisfaction, gave Karen's legs a good rub.

Needless to say, there was no saving the squirrel. One chomp to it's head is all it took to do the trick.

So, what's the lesson learned? I don't know about the female squirrel, they usually mate for life. She bitched and griped around there for a couple of weeks or so scolding the cat and calling for her mate, then one day she was just gone – to the gratitude of everyone else left behind. Peace and quiet at last.

Tinker? Well, she took it all in stride, just like it was meant to be – and promptly forgot about the whole incident.

She may have forgotten, but we certainly have not.

Thursday, August 7, 2014

My Respite

When I wrote the title of this article, I thought about the old melody, "Back In The Saddle Again" by Gene Autry. "Where the only law is right."

It's hard to believe it was June 2010 the last time I posted an article on this blog. To be sure a lot has happened in these past four years. It wasn't too long after June I started having heart trouble - the kind of trouble that causes a lot of physical distress. Eventually, I had to have some repairs. Didn't get everything fixed so had to go back four months later. Ended up out of that with a slight stroke which didn't help. As a result my blog writing kind of got put on a back burner.

Well, I'm not in any saddle, but I do have some things to talk about. I hoped to live to the day I would see God intervene to save humankind only to learn he already has. A lot happened in the last four years, maybe I'll write about some of that.

When my wife and I moved into this home 2006 we were soon introduced to a neighbor family that revealed themselves to be some of the most insidious, terrorist thugs you could ever imagine. As it turned out they were personal friends of the Eureka City Police Chief. So you can well imagine what a problem that turned out to be? We managed after nearly eight years to finally get them shut down - mostly. It was a bit distressing when they came down to our property one day and told us they were there trying to get me upset so I would have another heart attack. That's where Tinker came into the picture. I have a story about her and squirrels. This family reminds us of the squirrels.

Life is a journey; one that seems to be speeding by faster and faster these days. Got to run to catch up.

Tuesday, February 23, 2010

Living Life Backwards


"Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards." Does it teach us anything?
Whenever life starts to get me down and the future looks bleak, I've found going back to the beginning and reexamining my original goals and commitments helps reorganize my priorities, give me confidence and hope for the future. What is, is – there certainly is no going back. What we are is the sum total of what we were. And, I might add, that includes all of our ancestor's lives that went before us. We carry all that was good and all that was bad in our predecessor families. There is a price we all pay for that. For those of us of the Christian Faith, Jesus Christ showed us the Way to redeem that price. So, what does my life teach you? What did my father's life teach me?

For sure, when I was ten to twelve years old, I knew exactly what I wanted to be and what I wanted to do. I wanted to be a minister of God; not a member of the clergy, a priest or a preacher, but a minister. That's what I envisioned Jesus Christ and his faithful Apostles were, ministers and teachers. I was committed, and I organized my life around that pursuit. In the end I did attain that goal. That "life" was everything to me, however “Life” has its ways and I was forced to reevaluate my life and my commitment to that way.

I happened to watch an interesting movie about my same dilemma made in 2006 with Jacob Pitts, Amy Acker, Alan Arkin, and Frank Langella called Crossroads a.k.a. The Novice. In fact it very easily could have been a story about me for I, too, had determined to remain celibate. It is the story of a young Catholic seminary student whose goal is to become a Jesuit. He spends some time working in Brazil then later, while continuing his studies in Louisiana, encounters a beautiful young woman that embodies everything he envisions in the ideal woman. I spent time in Brazil as a missionary too. Learned to speak and write Portuguese fluently; could even pray in the language. I even learned to understand the local Rio slang, “Carioca.” The young people my age thought that was great, an American could actually understand and talk their lingo.

I, too, was confronted with a choice. While I was not a Catholic aspiring to become a Jesuit, for me the religion and the Jesuit goals were the same; required the same committment. Becoming a Jesuit requires four oaths or “solemn vows.” The first three are, the solemn vows of “perpetual chastity, poverty and obedience.” The Fourth vow, unique to Jesuits, was of special obedience to the pope in matters regarding mission, where they could be asked to journey to any place on earth to act as missionaries without money or transportation. Not all Jesuits took this “Fourth vow.” Those that did were considered “special,” a mark of approval by the Church and the Jesuit Society's hierarchy.

There is an interesting quote about a certain aspect of Jesuit's ministry that defines my oath, as well:
“The founder of the Society of Jesus, St. Ignatius of Loyola, opened its charter and rule with this famous line: 'Whoever desires to serve as a soldier of God beneath the banner of the cross in our Society, which we desire to be designated by the name of Jesus, and to serve the Lord alone and the Church, his spouse, under the Roman pontiff, the vicar of Christ on earth, should, after a solemn vow of perpetual chastity, poverty and obedience, keep what follows in mind. He is a member of a Society founded chiefly for this purpose: to strive especially for the defense and propagation of the faith and for the progress of souls in Christian life and doctrine.' Rule 13 of Ignatius's 'Rules for Thinking with the Church' said: 'I will believe that the white that I see is black if the hierarchical Church so defines it'.”
It is the statement: “I will believe that the white that I see is black if the hierarchical Church so defines it” that caused the eventual dilemma that required a “savior.” At that time I had no problem with accepting this principle from the churches hierarchal equivalent to the “Pope” as these men considered themselves the “real successors of Peter.” However, my understanding of their documented teachings contravened many local church hierarchy's beliefs and teachings. They thought to impose themselves spokespersons for the Church's spiritual leaders. I learned later in life that it was because my vow or oath was made to Almighty God by the authority and through the auspices of Jesus Christ that allowed me to see the difference in teachings and understanding. In time I was able to see that the Church's “white” was neither “black” nor “white.” That His truth was most evident in what I always believed was his gift to me in my time of need, my perfect compliment, that beautiful person that became my friend and later my wife.

My walk with Almighty God became a shared walk. In that reality we were never impoverished. I thank God each day for showing me the Way, for the opportunity to maximize my life and the time allowed to share it with someone special.

The past, put together with the present is a good indicator of the future.
Gary.

Saturday, January 16, 2010

Gary's Way

After 66 years I developed a Way -- My Way.

That Way is Me.

Of course, a lot of older people, most actually, are set in their "way." I believe the term is: "cast in stone." I guess that's why they got old. And, thank God, died. All you get are rigid beliefs and stiff necks, no flexibility, no movement, no heart and no minds that know; totally intractable beings.

Personally, My Way is about staying young. When new and challenging thoughts, ideas and beliefs pop up, I try to keep an open mind and a fortified heart. Such things like, this Earth belongs to our children and grandchildren, none of us, regardless what we do, has a lock on heaven and the so-called evil Muslim are all terrorists.

My Way started when I was eight years old when I began my search for the truth. Life became a laboratory; a place to test and experiment, to prove and to experience the revealed truth. Later that "Truth Revealed" took on capital meaning. My Way was not like the ways of those around me, my "older generation" or my contemporaries. They didn't like new ideas and certainly did not like being challenged. They were totally locked into their belief systems. Their realities were all in their minds. They looked at the mathematical equation, for instance, and said four is NOT the result of adding two plus two. Even though they were provided with mountains of proof to the contrary, they continued to believe what they wanted. They all claimed the right answer, whatever they wanted it to be, WAS THEIR TRUTH! They were all trying to get life and people to fit into their small-minded understandings -- understandings they believed were their immutable truth. It didn't take me long to figure out all that did was create problems, specially if I didn't agree or go along. Someone was always trying to get me to accept them as some authority when they had absolutely nothing to back it up or back them up. That was when I encountered my first bully. It didn't matter what the facts were or what truth was revealed, any resistance or question to their monumental "BS" was considered an overt assault on their manhood or womanhood. That was a serious matter for a young person.

It was about this time I was acquainted with the teachings written in the Bible of Jesus the Christ. His ideas seemed to make sense to me and I figured that if I could duplicate him I just might survive this life. Maybe even receive a blessing or two from God. My Way took on a new direction. I looked at what he said, for instance, "Just let your word Yes mean Yes, your No, No; for what is in excess of these is from the wicked one." (Matthew 5:37) and that is exactly what I endeavored to do. I put those words into practice and made them real in my life. In time, as I grew, I became recognized as a person of integrity.

Life is what it is and as I grew I learned the meaning of these words Jesus spoke as recorded at Matthew 5:27: "You heard that it was said, 'You must not commit adultery.' But I say to you that everyone that keeps on looking at a woman so as to have a passion for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart." Notice he did not say "mind," but rather "heart." My thoughts, dreams and fantasies were no different than any other young boy, teenager, burgeoning young man or eventually full grown male. Putting those words into practice was not easy, and then there were the young women that made sure of that, but eventually putting those words into practice provided the safeguard that allowed me to meet and marry the one woman that had also set those Christ-like standards.

Living Jesus' Way caused considerable problems as you could well imagine. So these words of his took on a rather personal and meaningful significance, "Happy are the pure in heart, since they will see God. Happy are the peaceable, since they will be called 'sons of God.' Happy are those who have been persecuted for righteousness' sake, since the kingdom of the heavens belongs to them. Happy are you when people reproach you and persecute you and lyingly say every sort of wicked thing against you for my sake. Rejoice and leap for joy, since your reward is great in the heavens; for in that way they persecuted the prophets prior to you." (Matthew 5:8-12) Am I "pure in heart"? Have I seen God? Am I called a "son of God"? Do I possess the "kingdom of heavens"? Have people all my life reproached and persecuted and lyingly said every sort of wicked thing against me for Jesus' sake?

What does it mean "for Jesus' sake"?

To know the answer to that question is to personally know me, for Jesus said, "Likewise let your light shine before men, that they may see your fine works and give glory to your Father who is in the heavens." (Matthew 5:16)

My Way is not about thinking, theorizing, believing, postulating, contemplating, imagining, fantasizing, or speculating. My Way is about BEING.

Now about that picture. When I first came across it I was immediately taken by the Adam and Eve reality. And sure enough that is exactly, I learned later, the title. Bruno Pasqualini lives in Australia and you can contact him here.
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This is a rather interesting place: http://missiodeiscandia.wordpress.com/ Missio Dei Scandia

For me it is a refreshing and hopeful sign to see young and old people coming together in simple, practical and meaningful ways to replace old, outdated, flawed and failed systems with something that works -- self. Old societies are replacing the democratic systems controlled and governed by the patriarchs, the matriarchs and the oligarchs.

Don't ask me what Missio Dei Scandia means because I don't know. This is what he says about himself: "Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards. Søren Kierkegaard"

In those simple words are revealed Gary's Way.

Gary.
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